I worked with a woman who had been in the same position for over 20 years. Same role. Same company. She didn't have high confidence. She didn't believe she could do more. But something shifted.
She decided to clean up her resume. She went to the interview. And she was terrified.
Every part of her was thinking, "I'm crazy. What am I doing here? I don't belong here." But she put on a smile and kept telling herself: Why not? I'm here. I'm gonna do my best.
She got the position.
She told me later that she never would have imagined herself in that role if it hadn't been for our work together - helping her see that there were other possibilities. Not because we eliminated her doubt. But because she made a choice anyway.
That's The Impossible Shift.
Sometimes we can't change the demons from our past. We can't erase the trauma we've experienced. But we do have choice.
Your choice is your power. Your choice is your freedom. And that is what gives you the ability to change.
You don't have to overcome every limiting belief before you can move forward. You don't have to wait until you feel "ready" or "fixed" or "healed enough."
You can make different choices right now. Small, aligned shifts in your decision-making. That's how transformation happens.
Not through toxic positivity. Not through pretending the pain doesn't exist. But through reclaiming your agency - one conscious choice at a time.
I offer one-on-one coaching for individuals who've faced setbacks - usually career or relationship challenges - and are ready to find their way back to themselves.
Here's what the process looks like:
First, we have a 30-minute coffee conversation. I listen. I want to understand where you are and what you need. No pressure, no pitch - just connection.
If we're a fit, we explore "what if" scenarios together. What if you made a different choice? What if there were other possibilities you haven't considered? We work together for 1-3 months, just long enough to help you move forward.
You'll know you're ready to finish when your language shifts - from "I can't" to "I will." From defeat to empowerment. That's when I know you've reclaimed your power.
This is NOT for you if:
I only work with 1-5 clients per month because this work requires deep, focused support. If you're reading this and thinking "maybe this is for me," that's enough. We'll figure out the rest together.
Nelson Mandela